@SchmuFoo (Jan)
Yes, the Alexa devices will only connect via RTSP to port 443.
You can override the SSL hosted port used by Monocle Gateway by overriding the rtsp.ssl.port property in monocle.properties as in the example below where port 8443 is used instead.
#--------------------------------------
# RTSP SERVICE PROPERTIES
#--------------------------------------
rtsp.ssl.port=8443
You can also use a proxy server, but not NGINX or APACHE. You will need a TCP proxy server as the cameras use RTPS and not HTTP. You may be able to use something like stunnel, HA Proxy or maybe traefik something that does full TCP proxying. In this case you may have to have a valid SSL certificate at the terminating proxy server using your own domain record.
If terminating your own SSL cert and providing your own DNS hostname, you would also need to update these properties:
#--------------------------------------
# RTSP SERVICE REGISTRATION OVERRIDES
#--------------------------------------
#rtsp.register.fqdn=
#rtsp.register.host=
Let me know if this is something you decide to pursue if you run into any trouble perhaps I can help.
Thanks, Robert